Hey Susan,
After a quick glance at the Texas law books, I've discovered
that the legally-approved marriage vows refer to the usual phrases:
"for richer, for poorer, in sickness and health, etc. etc."
There's
NO MENTION that the bride
MUST be a card-carrying,
union member of the National Brotherhood / Sisterhood
of Sound Recording Engineers.
So there's no need for you to apoligize about your mistakes.
Stop worrying.
Roger can hire somebody.
Besides, he
ONLY married you for your looks, and your money.
What
MORE does the man want?