After a quick glance at the Texas law books, I've discovered
that the legally-approved marriage vows refer to the usual phrases:
"for richer, for poorer, in sickness and health, etc. etc."
There's NO MENTION
that the bride MUST
be a card-carrying,
union member of the National Brotherhood / Sisterhood
of Sound Recording Engineers.
So there's no need for you to apoligize about your mistakes.
Roger can hire somebody.
Besides, he ONLY
married you for your looks, and your money.
does the man want?